I have a problem and would like advice.

[cody_walker]

Hi my name is Cody. I am 19 and a college student. I recently was at a party, and my friends came back to my dorm. We got a little drunk, and they made out and had sucked each other. My problem is that I got hard from this. Now, I have used a vibrator, and didn't like it, but I have watched gay porn, and got hard. Am I gay or bi? I do still have feelings for my girlfriend. I just need advice.

Do you all like my picture? It's my big brother. He is in the Army.

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[lcsoman0117]

Welcome to TC!
Arousal is not all that defines homosexuality. Homosexuality is a combination of emotional and phyisical attraction to the same, or both sexes. Don't feel that just because you got hard from witnessing a sexual act (very normal by the way), that you are automatically homosexual.

Hope my advice helped.

[cody_walker]

should i persue it?

[nickw_2013]

Trae pretty much covered it. Just because you got aroused doesn't mean you're gay. Its perfectly normal to be aroused by sexual things. However, none of us can tell you if you should pursue it. Only you can determine what is right for yourself. If it feels right to you, explore and see if you like it. If not then leave as it is. But don't let your friends or the thought of what friends might think determine that for you