crush

[zerospeed]

i think ive got a crush on a guy and a girl at the same time
ive just gotten to know these two people

the girl, she's very cute. her smile is so sweet
and she has a beautiful personality
she is willing to share and sacrifice herself for others, which i feel is a very rare trait nowadays
we talk and joke with each other like friends
in fact, we sit right beside each other in class

and the guy, he has a cute smile too
he's quite muscular for a 14 yr old, and he's been giving me alot of emotional support during the short time we've known each other
i guess he just treats me as a good friend, i suppose he's straight too
although he does fool around and pretend to be gay sometimes

the thing is, whenever im around them, i get nervous.
but i dont have the desire to jump on them or anything
like if they are really close, then i wouldn't want them to leave
but if they do, i usually just bit my lip

and even though i'd hate to admit it, i think my feelings for the guy are stronger
ive always told myself that if i ever had a boyfriend, it would be a relationship that was just for fun, nothing more, i'd get married and have children just like everybody else

but now that i think about it, i feel that its really selfish of me

i could never bring myself to go up to the girl and express my feelings
nor would i ever be able to have the courage to tell the guy that im bi

i have more or less decided that i would just let these feelings pass
could you guys give advice on how to forget crushes
and i am positive that i'd be able to develop long lasting friendships
with the both of them, so i'd suppose i'd want to come out and tell them about my sexuality in the future
but i have no idea how to go about doing it

thanks, it felt great to get these feelings off my chest :big_smile:

[PancakesXD]

I would talk to them and ask them what their fealings are for you. Then if anyone of them has the same fealings for you then decide "Do I want a relationship?". But if you want to forget it I would think of them as just friends

[jjasonwrght]

Well you have to feel the feelings as strong as they are for a good while, but they will eventually do /something/ at some point in time where your crush on them will just die.....It'll happen...lol

[カナア＿ボオルムン]

You can tell them you like them (if you do so let it be for a bit) you shouldn't want a feeling like a crush to dissapear. Some of my best friends know I like them and know I'm bi and by the short description provided above of those two I think they would be your friends if they knew you liked them or not. So ultimately do what you feel is right but consider multiple paths you can take.

[zerospeed]

You can tell them you like them (if you do so let it be for a bit) you shouldn't want a feeling like a crush to dissapear.

ya that might be a good idea but i do not have to courage to go up to them X.X

especially the guy, i can't guarantee that he wouldn't react negatively

and the girl's taller than me =X

what's more, all 3 of us are in the same class, if i tell them both what will they think of me...

[nickw_2013]

They shouldn't think any less of you just because they know you like them. It may come as a shock to the guy at first, but eventually if he really is your friend he'll move on past it and realize you're the same person you were before he knew.

[leo]

u should just ask whoever out that u want and still be friends.