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xxAshaxx
11-08-2009, 05:30 PM
Just a quick question - what is phone sex?
Also, I feel more attracted to girls - does this mean I'm lesbian?

Thanks, xxAshaxx

lcsoman0117
11-08-2009, 06:11 PM
Phone sex is pretty much sexual stimulation through word or noises over the phone.

And most teens feel attracted to the opposite sex throughout puberty, some ignore it and some act on it and realize they are truly bi/lesbian. No one here can tell you if you are, only you can know for sure.

PancakesXD
11-09-2009, 05:23 AM
Just a quick question - what is phone sex?
Also, I feel more attracted to girls - does this mean I'm lesbian?

Thanks, xxAshaxx

Phone sex is where you bassicly moan into a phone and masturbate or sexting is like this-
Hey babe
*touches breasts*
*moans*

Not going to go after that

I don't think you would be a lesbian. Maybe just curious or bi? But its just puberty

カナア_ボオルムン
11-09-2009, 03:45 PM
Well I heard of a different way of explaining phone sex, from what I've heard it's basically talking about what you'd be doing if you were having sex right then. I think lcsoman0117 has the better answer concerning your sexuality.

lcsoman0117
11-09-2009, 07:32 PM
No your not a lesbian! You are just curious!

I disagree with that answer Colton

welshtaffy
11-10-2009, 09:32 AM
oh dear lawd yus u r.

I disagree with you Kelly. I believe she is just curious at the moment, which is quite natural for her age.

カナア_ボオルムン
11-10-2009, 03:39 PM
Asha I believe it's upto you to come up with the answer to your orientation. We're all willing to try and help but, in reality it's only you who can answer if you're lesbian or not.

PancakesXD
11-10-2009, 10:40 PM
I disagree with that answer Colton

I read over it like 20000000 times and I am going to edit it!

IAMSAM
11-15-2009, 05:32 PM
Phone sex=Trae's excellent response.

Lesbian=much more complex than attraction to girls at 14.

We often are more attracted to our own b/c we're familiar with it, we've newly discovered it and how exciting it is, so we identify with it much easier.

Homosexuality is more about how we see ourselves and experience ourselves and others, it's mich more about our feelings and emotions about ourselves as boys or girls and how we see and experience boys and girls emotionally, not just sexually. Lacking the emotional piece, and the identity piece, sexual arousal is just arousal, it's about horniness. You need emotions, the emotional component first.

Rebelleader
11-15-2009, 08:45 PM
Phone sex is just a way for you to get sexually aroused. Not much more than that.
As for being lesbian, I don't think you have to worry about that. I know plenty of girls who feel that way, but are straight. Just give it time :)

Flare183
11-16-2009, 07:14 AM
Phone sex is just a way for you to get sexually aroused. Not much more than that.
As for being lesbian, I don't think you have to worry about that. I know plenty of girls who feel that way, but are straight. Just give it time :)

I agree with you there.

~Allie~
12-30-2009, 09:50 AM
Phone sex=Trae's excellent response.

Lesbian=much more complex than attraction to girls at 14.

We often are more attracted to our own b/c we're familiar with it, we've newly discovered it and how exciting it is, so we identify with it much easier.

Homosexuality is more about how we see ourselves and experience ourselves and others, it's mich more about our feelings and emotions about ourselves as boys or girls and how we see and experience boys and girls emotionally, not just sexually. Lacking the emotional piece, and the identity piece, sexual arousal is just arousal, it's about horniness. You need emotions, the emotional component first.

on the phone sex thing.. it doesn't work for me.. but it's like you basically what trae said.. except.. you masturbate to it.. well you can.. i never liked it.. never was into it..

and i have to agree about the lesbian comment above in the quote.. you being attracted to girls at the age of 14.. is completely normal sometimes.. it just depends.. that doesn't mean nothing

Have a good day!

sarales
07-30-2010, 08:12 PM
i had the same feelings about being a lesbian and they turned out to be true. But the only way of knowing is by testing them. Think, would you actually kiss or have sex with another girl