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fuzz775
11-07-2008, 01:40 PM
rRecently at a haloween party i got to connect with someone that i found special. i dont know it will work out but i like to think that she is special to me and we sort of have a life in common because we both come from pretty negligent families.

we have a lot in common except size.
she is about 50 cm taller than me but i still have a lot of growing to do.

basically she hangs around a group of girls at my school that me and my best mate do see a lotbut we dont really hang out with much. they are almost good friends to us.

when we were at he party of about 13 people(all friends of mine) we started playing truth or dare and you know how it always degrades to who likes who and basically three people were pretty pissed at it afterwards.
Me, The girl and another girl who was a close friend of mine (well theyre both close friends but i find her more of a friend) and we were talking about our problems with our lives (for some strange reason i find this helps me with my depression) and they wanted to know what sort of problems there were in my life.

We were talking when the whole group of people at the party arrived where we were sitting and it looked like they were having fun so after a while i left to get ready to go home( i was riding home and i had to get my stuff together) when she came over to me and she told me how angry at her friends she was because she liked my best friend for absolutely ages but her friends had only liked him for a month or 2 and he had said he liked one of her friends and now they were sitting next to each other with his hand around her neck like they were going out together.

she told me that she was pissed because she had lost her virginity to some bloke and the next day found out he actually liked her friend more. So she asked me what my problems where and i told her about my life and she told me about her life and then i summoned up the courage to tell her my deepest secret. then she told me she loved me when i was serious(im usually quite silly and stupid) and that she thought i was hot but she didnt think of me in that way but that was a quick after thought almost to stop me thinking that she had a crush on me or something.

then i had to leave but it started raining so i had to get a ride with one of the hosts parents and when i said goodbye she gave me a big hug and said do you really have to leave( i would be regretting this desicion for days afterwards as i wouldnt have another chance like this for a looooong time) and i said yeah and i only noticed then that she might actually like me in that way when the parent said for me to hurry up.

I think i may love her.

Fenriz
11-07-2008, 04:57 PM
well her saying she doesn't feel about you in that way does seem to suggest she doesn't, but if you love her, and if you do you will know, go for it, it's always a risk, but if you get the reward it is sooo worth it.

The Mage
11-07-2008, 07:55 PM
I agree with seb

Robbie
11-07-2008, 08:02 PM
yes as do I agree with Seb

Calyptic Nocent
11-07-2008, 08:23 PM
I agree as well, but this quote here:

We suffer more from the sins of omission than the sins of commission.



Basically what it means, is that more harm is done by what we fail to do than by what we do.



You've got nothing to lose right? If you don't do it, you'll be forever asking yourself what could, might, should have happened.



Anyway, best of luck :D

Captain
11-07-2008, 10:16 PM
Also look at that she lost her virginity and then the next day he told her off... that says she didnt really think it through she "thought" it was love... in reality it was just hormones. So maybe when you said it she thought "I want to love back" and its not necessarily "real" love.

fuzz775
11-08-2008, 01:20 PM
So maybe when you said it she thought "I want to love back" and its not necessarily "real" love.
she was the one who said she loved me when i was serious

im not sure if i should ask what she meant by 'i love you when your serious' thing or not before taking the risk because at the moment we have a good friendship but not too much of a friendship that 'were only friends'.

fuzz775
11-08-2008, 01:32 PM
i remember that she told me that she had been disapointed by the fact someone she was starting to like actually liked someone else and i think that is the same thing happening to me because i am friends with the person who the guy liked.:unhappy:

yeegreen
11-08-2008, 06:59 PM
awww your in LOVE!!!

I thinkk you should keep her, she is a special one!!!

fuzz775
11-10-2008, 05:56 AM
i tried to summon up the courage to talk to her about the party today however i couldnt get her alone to talk about it and i wasnt able to find a way to squeeze it into a conversation