what do i do

[foreverman]

She's vary over weight and her blood presser is way up and all the med's make he vary week and she is a door mat on the one hand and on the other if i try to get her to loose weight she yells at me.She dose not take care of here self she was feeling bad so she go's to all these non traditional medicene guy's for months and her colon was infected and was in the hospital then again in march she had not bin taking her med's and her blood presser went so high that she had 2 hour nose bleeds and would not do anything even wen her wird o doc told her to not even drive you could have your kidneys faii or pass out to go the the hospital now.Then she was at a bar and all it took was one manhattan on the rocks and she broke her nose and had ambulance called both times she would have died.She is 54 by the way.

[roborobby]

OK I really don't see a question here. It would be easier to help you if you had a question.

[foreverman]

How do i get her to loose weight and become more helthy in genral.

[cutiehuggiebear]

try to get her to play with the neighbor kids or tell her to go on a deit

[Morötesi]

try to get her to play with the neighbor kids or tell her to go on a deit

She's 54. It's best if she finds other ways of working out, rather than playing with kids.

Is there a gym in your area? If so, have her sign up. Show you care about her, and that you want her to get better.

[foreverman]

She said we will walk around the block what come on 100 yards. Ok to give you a idiea of what i am working with wen i asked her to come down 30 feet os so to see this fish she took 2 min and had to sit 2 times and rest. She takes there pills and the doc said she will feel like crap for 6 months it was in late march. I can not get her to walk 35 feet with out getting my legs and buckling from under me.

[roborobby]

You have the right idea get her to walk. It will take her a while to be able to walk far. She will need to build up her endurance. So be patient with her and encourage her a lot. The important thing is to get her moving and out doing activity. Remember she will need to start slow but encourage her to go further each tie she goes out and also go along so she has company and does not feel like she is doing this alone.

It is cool that you love this person enough to ask for advice on how to get her moving.